I get this question a lot:
"How can get my audience/friends to spread the word about my art?"
I'll be honest, my first instinct when I'm asked this question is to dance around it. I want to talk about the use of social media, smart use of referrals, that sort of thing.
Most of the time, I drop all that and give them the truth:
If people aren't talking about the experience you offer, it isn't worth talking about.
Ouch.
I know.
But we have to be honest here, the tools of word of mouth marketing are every-damn-where. You, right now, have more ability to tell people stuff then the President of the United States had 40 years ago.
We all have microphones and we use them to talk about the things that we love.
My peeps at Wynn Las Vegas don't have to pay me a dime to rave about them. They don't need to ask me to do it. I love the place, I want other folks to try it.
If someone sees me using my Kindle, I can talk their ear off about it.
We all have things that we gladly, actively, spread through our networks. But we only do that for the "wow" stuff. We only do it for the thing or the experiences that moves us.
Everything else, the average, the merely good, we stay quiet about. Not because we are bad people, but because we only have so much time to talk about stuff.
My job, and your job, is to give people the wow moments that will cause them to talk. And when I say "wow" I don't mean "big". I've seen entire retail operations made by small interactions between employees and customers. They can be very small gestures, as long as they are unexpected or delightful.
This is the point where someone starts typing me an email saying "but my art is the WOW moment!"
Sure it is. Sometimes.
But part of what makes real art work is that we really have no idea what people will think of it. Some will love it. Some will hate it. That's the way it goes.
You can guarantee that your art will wow them. You can ensure that the many interactions people have with you both before and after the artistic experience will stay with them.
Remember, Zappos couldn't ensure that you would love the shoes you bought from them. They didn't even make the shoes. They became legendary for offering the sort of service that would make people tell their friends.
That's how what they did spread.
That's how what YOU do can spread.